It is important to feel confident in ourselves. It provides us
with acceptance and security. Lack of confidence can be extremely damaging. It
affects many aspects of our lives including our relationships with others.
Where problems with confidence occur it is sometimes as a result
of our appearance. Though we are encouraged to believe that beauty comes from
within, appearance is still important. It projects who we are in the world and
our personal choices.
Each day we are bombarded with images of a beauty aesthetic that
is unattainable. We know that magazine photos are often Photoshopped and that
the final image does not represent the reality. And yet we are still affected
by it. In some cases problems with body image can be so severe that it leads to
body dysmorphia.
What can we do to improve our body confidence? The following quick
tips will help you feel more accepting of yourself .
Don’t Compare
Don’t compare yourself with others. You are your own person. Don’t
look through magazines and think of every flaw you have. Remember the images
are likely to be edited. What you’re seeing is not real life.
Embrace Your Flaws
Seriously. Learn to love yourself and embrace your flaws. Your
body is a remarkable vessel and a work of art. Think about what it does for you
each day. Right now it is breathing for you and pumping through your veins.
Billions of messages are being conveyed from your brain. Even when you’re
sleeping it is working for you. Celebrate everything good about yourself. Focus
on the good parts rather than the bits you don’t like.
Make Changes
We all have areas of our body that we don’t like. Few people are
100% happy with their appearance. Look at these areas carefully. Are they
really a problem? Are they affecting your everyday life? Or worse, are they
limiting you in some way. If so, then think about making changes. If the issue
is something that can be fixed through diet or exercise, then work out a plan.
If the issue is a medical condition then seek professional advice.
In more extreme cases you may wish to consider surgery. However,
this is a decision that should not be taken lightly and should be discussed
with a qualified surgeon. There are many misconceptions about cosmetic surgery.
For example, breast augmentation
misconceptions are widely reported in the media. But when carried out in a professional
and safe environment the results can be beneficial.
Exercise
Exercise is a great way to
boost body confidence. It can be tricky at first but you will notice
improvements quickly. As you improve and become fitter your confidence will
grow. Exercise also causes our brain to release feel-good chemicals called
endorphins.
Eat Well
Eating well can also help with body confidence. There are
countless benefits derived from a healthy diet. Once these become
apparent, our confidence will grow.
Wear Well-Fitting Clothes
When buying clothes opt for items with a good cut and that fit
well. Feeling comfortable and looking good can help boost self-esteem. We’re
not suggesting that clothes are a solution but they may help.
Camouflage
If you don’t like it then disguise it. This is true of facial
imperfections and bumps and lumps that we want to hide. Opt for good, well
fitting clothing. If the issue is skin related then look for a foundation cream
with good coverage. It may not solve the problem but it may provide a temporary
fix.
Confidence is a state of mind. We’re not suggesting that these simple tips will change the way you think and feel. But making small changes and changing the way we relate to ourselves can lead to greater acceptance.
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